LIVE AND LEARN !
When u think about your present situation….don’t worry too much
about it …there are millions worse off..so do you cry…worry…OR DO U START TO DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT?…IF U WANT TO STAY IN THE HOLE….GOOD FOR U …hope they dont cover it……so Get up. Do something…..one life….do the best…dont be a coward!!!
Along life’s journey , we encounter numerous people of different personalities…be it good..great or bad…this has nothing to do with it . But among these people there are those who excel not to others but to yourself,,,,,others will not see what you see in them. We are not talking academically but on a personal level…..It may be that you are childhood friends or you have just known them for just a short while..but these people just stand out among the crowd! Treasure their friendship,,,,Remember once you lose them…..you will regret……what is lost may never be regained….
Love at first sight….is there anything like that?…At first sight, there may be a strong desire to be with that person…but that is only physical! There has to be more for a lasting relationship..Think of a little seed that is planted….It begins to grow and gets stronger every day…like the relationship . After a while, that little seed becomes very strong like the indomitable oak tree that can withstand anything……all the iniquities of life….Love has blossomed. .now u can enjoy happiness or face hardship together because Two has become One!!
What is there to do when the same advice is given several times to the same person who does not heed anything and keeps doing the same thing over and over and not getting anywhere but in a deep hole which keeps getting deeper and deeper by every passing moment??…Let him be…maybe a concerned person may see him in the hole and fill it up. Once he is covered in darkness, he has to decide whether to stand up ..or…sleep!!
You are the oasis in this desert which I call life..you are the scent from the rose…you are the air I breathe…you are my rock…you are my support…and, when I’m in pain , you are my shelter from that rain…you are my lover..you are my friend…and I will love you until my very end!
Did you ever realize that, most of the time you can know when you are about to fall asleep? Try it! There is a transitional period between being awake and falling asleep….you are on the bed..ready for sleep…all the voices in your head are yours…thoughts are also yours…then suddenly there are multiple voices like your thoughts are being invaded (transitional period) more voices…more talking….You are now drifting away…into that peaceful sleep..And then, SLEEP has the reins. Enjoy the ride!
Now that I’m approaching the twilight of my life, I am thinking..not so much of the present or the future. .but of the past. And the various choices I made….What would have happened….where would I be had I made different decisions? The roads I took led me to where I am……writing this.!!…I really do believe that I am exactly where I am supposed to be,,,and the choices I made were meant to be made……Is it fate or destiny?…Look back at your life and then decide!!
i really love this song ….it was also in the series JACK TAYLOR……LOVE should be reciprocal,,,,,,,,,,only then will it be fully enjoyed………..we would not be asking..WHAT ABOUT LOVE.. or WHAT’S LOVE GOT TO DO..instead we will have UNCONDITIONAL LOVE!!
Forget what hurt you in the past, but never forget what it taught you. However, if it taught you to hold onto grudges, seek revenge, not forgive or show compassion, to categorize people as good or bad, to distrust and be guarded with your feelings then you didn’t learn a thing. God doesn’t bring you lessons to close your heart. He brings you lessons to open it, by developing compassion, learning to listen, seeking to understand instead of speculating, practicing empathy and developing conflict resolution through communication. If he brought you perfect people, how would you ever learn to spiritually evolve?”
― Shannon L. Alder
Digging one hole to fill another is no good and not advisable….but what about using (not replacing) one emotion to cover another? Can that be done? I say YES! On several sad occasions, i get myself distracted intentionally, and feel as if i am just on the fence looking at a scene…there is no sadness in me..even at funerals,just fleeting moments of that!..i love being alone but i’m not lonely. Remember , the covered emotion is still there…it is not gone…it has not been replaced !Doing things this way can really mess you up or make you stronger to face harsh reality! M.O.