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Please stay a while! I have missed you so much . When I am not with you, my world is empty and I feel so lonely. Time stands still even though there is movement all around! I am in darkness…there is no sunshine nor moonlight …my life is like the desert with no oasis in sight! I cry but still there are no tears . My heart aches because there is no life blood of love flowing….there are no birds singing nor flowers blooming! It is raining loneliness on me but I don’t feel anything …my body is already numb from the pain of being without you. So won’t you please stay a while with me? Let me feel your warm embrace…let me drown myself in the scent of your love…let me run my fingers through your hair. This is where I belong! Now I can truly experience love and return the same unconditionally. My world is you…my life is you ..my present is with you. ..and should there be a future, let it be you, my love! Now I can just reach up and pluck a star or even the sun and give it to you as a gift…in fact , my whole life is your gift! Soon you must leave , and then I will anxiously await our next visit..our next reunion…..MY NEXT DREAM!

Everyone has opinions on this..even the experts who have written so many books on the subject . BUT WHAT THEY DON’T REALIZE IS THAT THIS INFORMATION IS GENERAL AND NOT A CASE STUDY! I am not an expert, but my input on the subject comes from my experience as a parent. Before i go further, i want to mention this…. it is always better to be honest and sincere , and choose your words very carefully, for human beings are very fragile creatures where their feelings are concerned! Wrong words can destroy nations, much less people. ..Generally , we want our children to be like us……if we are doctors, we want our children to be the same…..and so on. When we say something , we want our children to totally agree with us! . There should be no room for further discussion….so , i guess, we want little robots of ourselves! The future will be a robotic world….a world ruled by robots! EACH PERSON IS AN INDIVIDUAL, and is different from anyone else! Parental control can only go so far…..we advise because we have been down that path before,,,,but we are forgetting this! At the time we were facing the similar situation, we were confronted with several options…we chose one and our Advice was based on our choice! Now that our children are faced with a similar situation, how can we know that he/ she will choose the same choice we made! Maybe he/ she will choose another option.. another path… another tree limb onto which to jump ….different from ours! All we have to do is to support them in their choice…monitor from a distance! We want our children to become a credit to society…….so let them be…..we want them to learn from mistakes or experiences because only then will they be able to modify their choices ….LIFE IS A LEARNING PROCESS !.. .SO STILL BE THERE FOR THEM!!

The heart, as far as we are concerned, is just a vital organ in the body..it pumps blood to different parts of the body, thus keeping us alive. At some point in our lives, we develop a heart condition…maybe due to hypertension or other factors. We get admitted to a hospital to rectify the situation either through medication or surgery! But when we do a heart checkup , why isn’t it possible not only to see what’s going on inside , but to also see the emotional side residing there? Who knows? Maybe the future will be so advanced, they will be able to do that! Apart from being just a physical organ , shouldn’t we consider it as the housing of all our emotions..love, hate , anger and the rest…….our very soul!! When we see a loved one, does our hearts race before our minds or vice versa? When a loved one passes away, do we say that our minds will always be with them or do our hearts feel the pain…the anguish…the suffering…the loss? Both emotionally and physically , hearts are very fragile and thus we should always nourish them with , not only healthy foods but also healthy emotions…Love! Do the regular heart checkup…both physically and emotionally…..analyze whether everything is fine….see that all the pieces are well and in place! Should something not feel right, get it fixed…..because Life demands that. This is not a movie or a book where you can skip all the main sections and check the ending .You are here for a purpose….only which the HEART knows too well!

When we think of gain and loss, what goes through our minds? Is it about money? Do we wonder how much profit we can make in this TRANSACTION, or how much we can LOSE if we don’t rob this person…maybe thousands..maybe millions? Does everything boils down to money? Do we think about happiness and sorrow….will I be happier with this person or the other? Will my life be a sea of sadness living with A. or will it be a bed of roses living with B? Will there be a port where I may harbor my sad life…my loss? Should I set sail into the sunset with my loved one and find my happiness….my Gain? Never forget…to every action, there is a reaction…… once there is a void, something fills it up…maybe air or sadness! As we climb that ladder of success to reach the top, are we going to trample on people…either physically or emotionally? As we keep climbing, do we lose something..like our true selves …? As we gain love, do we lose sadness….as we gain hope, do we lose despair…in our quest for fame and fortune, do we forget our true friends and family? Do we become blind to these little things? We should wake up and smell the roses! What is it worth to gain the whole world and lose our soul? Never forget!! Whenever and wherever there is gain, there is always a loss!!

Do we count how many days we have left before we expire or before the world ends, whichever comes first? What is there to worry about? That cannot be answered. We enjoy what we have , no matter how little or how much. It is all the same. One day, it will all be gone. Do we share or are we too selfish that we don’t care about our fellow human beings? Is that the right path to choose? We can only know the answers in the days to come! Are we aware of anything..especially other people’s feelings? We have our friends and our family….how much do they treasure us? Do they wait for us to die , and then quarrel over what we leave ? In that case, it is better for us to enjoy all we have and leave Nothing…..to chance! We even have our children whom we love so much, and sacrificed a lot for their upbringing. , but will they remember that now that we are old..We don’t know! We cannot read their minds. , but at the same time, we cannot be judgemental! They have their own lives to live….their own children to care for! Answers to these questions will only be unfolded in the days to come!

On Planet Earth, there are so many people living, and even some just exist because it is better than going into the ground! Of these, there are the happy -go-lucky type who , in their minds, have everything…..then there are the ” worriers” who have nothing and so there is nothing to lose! Are they singing “Born To Lose” ? Who knows? In that vast melting pot, it boils down to this…..each person is an individual, and has his/her own thoughts! But , at one point or another, they ask themselves questions which lead to answers which lead to more questions! Does she love me ? Will I hit the lotto? Will there be a better tomorrow? Do my parents know that I am pregnant? Will I get the job? Will I still be alive tomorrow? With all these questions in mind , we are really seeking answers, but as we know ,there are none and we become frustrated , and probably take it out on the poor homeless cat or the empty tin can! We seek help from above and beyond but to no avail! Can someone please help? But there is a person who can really give you all the answers you need. Even though these may not be the ones in your favor or you may not be around to listen to them….Just ask or send your questions to the all-knowing Old man! TIME!

Still thinking about where love has gone? Don’t worry! It has dissipated due to the warm weather. You have gotten old…It was not strong, to begin with! Did you think that your money and power could buy Love…the kind that lasts a lifetime? Sorry, my friend….you are far from the truth….You were totally fooled! You gave your all but still it was not good enough…..so, what should you give…your life? Would that be enough? I doubt it. Did you ever feel that no matter what you do, it it still not good enough……..there is always someone or even others in front of you….. You are at the back of the line You feel the hurt…the pain. ..the anguish. .of not being recognized! You try your best….you do your best..because of your Love….but it is all in vain .The worst thing about it is that you know but you cannot help it because of your Love for that person…All you have to do now is to be true to yourself…..stop thinking about being neglected…keep loving and do the best for that person you love….selfless love! In the end, you will never feel that you didn’t do enough! You will not find a reason to ask..WHERE LOVE HAS GONE!

Do we ever think about our last day being alive? We awake and later step out to work, vacation , shopping or anything else with never a thought of this being our last day! Everything seems so beautiful..radiant sunshine or even the snow.. birds singing, children playing and laughing..adults talking or gossiping! Everything seems fine. We have our beautiful family at home awaiting our return! Everything seems to be coming up Roses ! Wow! No worry…no fear…just looking forward to a wonderful day…and then suddenly we are gone…extinguished. We cannot even experience the Darkness…because we are beyond that. Life has been snuffed out! There was never an opportunity for even a last farewell! Sometimes , when we are ill, then we have that moment to do things like these…but how much can we say? Why didn’t we do that before? Why didn’t we enjoy the sunshine together instead of waiting for the darkness? Is there anything like a good and proper farewell? We ask the questions..but all we get are echoes! Should we say our Last Farewell today??? ((( THE FINAL GOODBYE

As we go about our daily lives, do we ever consider the possibility that this day may be our last? We rise, begin our daily routines, and engage in various activities, never thinking that this day may be our final one. The world around us seems vibrant and full of life, with the radiant sunshine, the gentle snowfall, the sweet songs of birds, the carefree laughter of children, and the engaging conversations among adults. Our families await our return home, and all seems well. However, in an instant, our lives can be extinguished, leaving us without the opportunity to bid a final farewell. Occasionally, when illness strikes, we are granted a moment to reflect and make amends, but how much can we truly express? Why did we not cherish these moments sooner? Why did we wait until our final days to appreciate the beauty of life? Can we truly experience a meaningful and heartfelt farewell? We pose these questions, but all we receive in response are echoes. Should we take the initiative to bid our last farewell today? ((( داحافظی نهایی

آیا در حین انجام کارهای روزمره‌مان، هرگز به این احتمال فکر می‌کنیم که این روز ممکن است آخرین روز ما باشد؟ ما از خواب بیدار می‌شویم، کارهای روزمره خود را شروع می‌کنیم و به فعالیت‌های مختلفی می‌پردازیم، بدون اینکه هرگز فکر کنیم که این روز ممکن است آخرین روز ما باشد. دنیای اطراف ما با آفتاب درخشان، بارش ملایم برف، آوازهای شیرین پرندگان، خنده‌های بی‌خیال کودکان و گفتگوهای جذاب بین بزرگسالان، پر جنب و جوش و پر از زندگی به نظر می‌رسد. خانواده‌های ما منتظر بازگشت ما به خانه هستند و همه چیز خوب به نظر می‌رسد. با این حال، در یک لحظه، زندگی ما می‌تواند خاموش شود و ما را بدون فرصتی برای خداحافظی نهایی رها کند. گاهی اوقات، وقتی بیماری به سراغمان می‌آید، لحظه‌ای برای تأمل و جبران به ما داده می‌شود، اما واقعاً چقدر می‌توانیم ابراز کنیم؟ چرا زودتر از این لحظات قدردانی نکردیم؟ چرا تا روزهای پایانی خود صبر کردیم تا از زیبایی زندگی قدردانی کنیم؟ آیا واقعاً می‌توانیم یک خداحافظی معنادار و صمیمانه را تجربه کنیم؟ ما این سؤالات را مطرح می‌کنیم، اما تنها چیزی که در پاسخ دریافت می‌کنیم، پژواک است. آیا باید امروز ابتکار عمل را برای آخرین خداحافظی خود به دست بگیریم؟

I have watched several series on NETFLIX…..korean,,chinese,, turkish english and even spanish! In most of them, there is a title song,,,,,,but the best one i have watched so far with several beautiful emotional songs is BENI BOYLE SEV (love me as i am ) ! On Netflix, there are subtitles ,,,,but on YOUTUBE THERE ARE NONE! I have found them to be very good, but am very surprised to see viewers give them 2 stars….anyway, this is one beautiful song from LOVE ME AS I AM,,,,sorry, no subtitles but, to see the translation, you have to watch it on NETFLIX! Enjoy…https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b6CiuSe9Rxc

03/05/2019 by Michael
LOVE AND MARRIAGE
Marriage is the legally or formally recognized union of two individuals as partners in a personal relationship, historically and in some jurisdictions, specifically a union between a man and a woman. This discussion will focus on the union between a man and a woman. The documentation status of the union may be a point of inquiry, but it does not alter the fundamental nature of the relationship or its outcome. A successful marriage should be characterized by love, respect, honesty, and other essential qualities, including the inevitability of quarrels, jealousy, and ups and downs. In some instances, partners may have the opportunity to recognize and appreciate each other’s strengths and weaknesses prior to marriage, enabling them to work on building a solid foundation for their relationship. This period of discovery and growth is crucial in establishing a strong and lasting union.
What about the practice of arranged marriages, prevalent in certain countries and cultures, which may or may not be formally documented? These unions may be motivated by financial considerations or other factors. In such cases, the individuals involved may not have previously met or interacted with each other, yet they are expected to embark on a lifelong journey together. Is this a fair expectation? They will need to invest time and effort in getting to know each other, and it is possible that they may not be compatible. Assuming they spend years trying to understand, adapt, and ultimately develop feelings for each other, what then? Will they have reached the culmination of their life’s journey? How much time will they have left to enjoy their union? Marriage can be likened to a vessel navigating the open sea, with no land in sight. It is essential for the partners to chart their own course towards happiness.