THE LOSS

There are so many people who have faced losses…money wise or love or physical …loss of limbs ..eyes..etc..but let us dwell for just a moment on the loss of a loved one. .HOW DO WE FEEL? Are we stressed out…..are we in control of our emotions…..are we happy for some selfish reason? Who knows? We all have our own reasons! We may be in for some money! But what about the genuinely sad ones? Why don’t we put ourselves in their shoes, and feel what they feel? Is it a happy sight just looking at their loved one’s lifeless body who has a single tear at the corner of one of their eyes? What does it feel like trying to restrain someone who is looking at the cremation or the lifeless body being put in their resting ground? It hurts! We have to be on the same wavelength as the sad ones to actually listen to the cries of the anguished and lonely…..then we just may understand. That hurt stays with us as long as we are alive….as long as our hearts are beating,,,as long as our minds can function! Then we are alone regardless of how many people are around us,,..We cry because we know how it feels! Now what about the loved one who is on the brink of leaving this physical world ……how do they feel…we can only guess unless we are there at their very last breath ! I am sure they worry about us and our future…..they probably think of all the wonderful moments they spent, and now they have to say goodbye! HOW SAD! Maybe they did not do enough…or so they think….but everyone knows DEATH is inevitable…..so do the best you can while you are alive…so you have less to worry about……and the living has to remember this….LIFE HAS TO GO ON!