LOVE ME AS I AM… IF YOU WILL LOVE ME AT ALL! . To truly love someone, it is essential to accept them for who they are, without attempting to alter their inherent nature. Many individuals have experienced the euphoria of love, but few have had the privilege of witnessing its entirety. Love encompasses both joy and sorrow, as well as the beauty of growing old together. As we interact and deepen our connection, our love flourishes, much like the oak tree. It is crucial to nurture this love through daily expressions of affection. Unfortunately, some individuals make the mistake of attempting to change their loved ones, raising questions about the authenticity of their love. Why not love someone who, in our eyes, is already perfect? Loving someone and then trying to alter them can be emotionally destructive, ultimately leading to heartbreak and devastation. Therefore, it is vital to love someone for who they are, without attempting to change them. As the phrase goes, “IF YOU WILL LOVE ME, LOVE ME FOR WHO I AM!”
THE THIN RED LINE
Being lonely and choosing to be alone are totally two different things! The first one happens and there is no choice there! We lose the will to live. , love and laugh…there is no moonlight nor sunshine in our lives. There is no friend nor foe.. we sleep and even exist in our own misery ..our own sorrow…our own world. We find it extremely difficult to allow anyone to enter and pollute our world of sadness. They are not welcome! For the Lonely , the world has discarded them….they become outcasts..The Lonely moves but still everything seems motionless! It is similar to being enclosed and buried in a time capsule! Now , on the other hand , there are those who choose to be alone. It is not because they are not happy or don’t want to chat. But being by themselves put them in their comfort Zone! They are not angry at the world or someone….but just choose that way of living. That is their choice! But there is an extremely thin line between the two modes of existence…the two worlds….The lonely may choose to be alone ….or the one who chooses to be alone may ultimately become the Lonely!
FEELINGS
It is said that generally man is a gregarious animal. He loves company…parties..sports..being ostentatious…numerous female companions! Without that he is surely lost! He wouldn’t have an opportunity to flex his muscles, in a matter of speaking. His egotistical attitude would be suffocated! So now we come to the introverts and the extroverts! The extroverts are the ones with the verbacious quality….Some just talk too much without giving others time to say anything! Now we have the introverts….those who are mostly within themselves…..they either listen or just dont care much about what others say…they ponder sometimes too much! How about the lonely ones? They have been let down by either people or experiences..They are mostly lost and need a way back to the surface! How about lending a helping hand! Finally , we arrive to those who choose to be alone. They either retreat from reality….or are just comfortable being by themselves. These people, sooner or later, lose touch of their emotions and become impersonal! They need some sort of stimulus to regrow the need to feel…to experience ..love ..laughter..sorrow and the rest to be Human again…Read…watch dramas…focus on what is actually happening! Whether it is joy or sorrow…Feel…Experience!!…This is what makes people Human!!