You are the oasis in this desert which I call life..you are the scent from the rose…you are the air I breathe…you are my rock…you are my support…and, when I’m in pain , you are my shelter from that rain…you are my lover..you are my friend…and I will love you until my very end!
Sleep and wake
Did you ever realize that, most of the time you can know when you are about to fall asleep? Try it! There is a transitional period between being awake and falling asleep….you are on the bed..ready for sleep…all the voices in your head are yours…thoughts are also yours…then suddenly there are multiple voices like your thoughts are being invaded (transitional period) more voices…more talking….You are now drifting away…into that peaceful sleep..And then, SLEEP has the reins. Enjoy the ride!
To be or not to be
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Now that I’m approaching the twilight of my life, I am thinking..not so much of the present or the future. .but of the past. And the various choices I made….What would have happened….where would I be had I made different decisions? The roads I took led me to where I am……writing this.!!…I really do believe that I am exactly where I am supposed to be,,,and the choices I made were meant to be made……Is it fate or destiny?…Look back at your life and then decide!!
the water is wide
i really love this song ….it was also in the series JACK TAYLOR……LOVE should be reciprocal,,,,,,,,,,only then will it be fully enjoyed………..we would not be asking..WHAT ABOUT LOVE.. or WHAT’S LOVE GOT TO DO..instead we will have UNCONDITIONAL LOVE!!
LEARN!
Forget what hurt you in the past, but never forget what it taught you. However, if it taught you to hold onto grudges, seek revenge, not forgive or show compassion, to categorize people as good or bad, to distrust and be guarded with your feelings then you didn’t learn a thing. God doesn’t bring you lessons to close your heart. He brings you lessons to open it, by developing compassion, learning to listen, seeking to understand instead of speculating, practicing empathy and developing conflict resolution through communication. If he brought you perfect people, how would you ever learn to spiritually evolve?”
― Shannon L. Alder
The Trick
Digging one hole to fill another is no good and not advisable….but what about using (not replacing) one emotion to cover another? Can that be done? I say YES! On several sad occasions, i get myself distracted intentionally, and feel as if i am just on the fence looking at a scene…there is no sadness in me..even at funerals,just fleeting moments of that!..i love being alone but i’m not lonely. Remember , the covered emotion is still there…it is not gone…it has not been replaced !Doing things this way can really mess you up or make you stronger to face harsh reality! M.O.
Sister
Recently, i have been haunted by thoughts of my sister.She was someone in whom i would confide…i protected…Her laughter would be warm and contagious..i need her now in my dreary life…her support! To those who still have sisters..please cherish them..Loss of a sister is something you won’t want to experience .i know! So enjoy the time you have together.