Friendly lover

You are the oasis  in this desert  which I call  life..you are the scent from the rose…you are the air I breathe…you are my rock…you are my support…and, when I’m in pain , you are my shelter from that rain…you are my lover..you are my friend…and I will love you until my very end!

Sleep and wake

Did you ever realize  that, most of the time  you  can know when you  are about to fall asleep?  Try it!  There is a transitional  period between being awake and falling asleep….you are on the bed..ready for sleep…all the voices in your head are yours…thoughts  are also yours…then suddenly  there are multiple  voices like your thoughts  are being  invaded   (transitional period) more voices…more talking….You are now drifting away…into that peaceful sleep..And then, SLEEP  has the reins. Enjoy the ride!

To be or not to be

  1. Now that I’m approaching  the twilight  of my life, I am thinking..not so much of the present  or the future.  .but of the past. And the various choices  I made….What would have happened….where would I be had I made different  decisions?   The roads I took led me to where I am……writing this.!!…I really  do believe  that  I am exactly  where I am supposed  to be,,,and the choices  I made were meant  to be made……Is it fate or destiny?…Look back at your  life  and then decide!!

the water is wide

i really love this song ….it was also in the series   JACK TAYLOR……LOVE  should be reciprocal,,,,,,,,,,only then will it be fully enjoyed………..we would not be asking..WHAT ABOUT LOVE..     or WHAT’S LOVE GOT TO DO..instead we will have UNCONDITIONAL LOVE!!

LEARN!

Forget what hurt you in the past, but never forget what it taught you. However, if it taught you to hold onto grudges, seek revenge, not forgive or show compassion, to categorize people as good or bad, to distrust and be guarded with your feelings then you didn’t learn a thing. God doesn’t bring you lessons to close your heart. He brings you lessons to open it, by developing compassion, learning to listen, seeking to understand instead of speculating, practicing empathy and developing conflict resolution through communication. If he brought you perfect people, how would you ever learn to spiritually evolve?”
― Shannon L. Alder

The Trick

Digging one hole to fill another is no good and not advisable….but what about using (not replacing) one emotion to cover another? Can that be done? I say YES! On several sad occasions, i get myself distracted intentionally, and feel as if i am just on the fence looking at a scene…there is no sadness in me..even at funerals,just fleeting moments of that!..i love being alone but i’m not lonely. Remember , the covered emotion is still there…it is not gone…it has not been replaced !Doing things this way can really mess you up or make you stronger to face harsh reality! M.O.

Sister

Recently, i have been haunted by thoughts of my sister.She was someone in whom i would confide…i protected…Her laughter would be warm and contagious..i need her now in my dreary life…her support! To those who still have sisters..please cherish them..Loss of a sister is something you won’t want to experience .i know! So enjoy the time you have together.