Honesty or Love

Throughout our travels, we meet, greet, and sleep with other partners. Is this a one time thing..a one night stand ..just to satisfy our hunger..our burning desire..our need for companionship , or is it something more? Most likely, it is too early to tell…we are still practically strangers in the night! Sometime in the future, we decide to get married..make it legal….work on the books ( so to speak) ..have many witnesses…make a big show out of it! But are we really ready for marriage? That is one giant step! It involves too many commitments to discuss here. Are we really and truly committed to spend the rest of our natural lives with only each other? Will there be other intimate relationships outside of marriages because life is long or short depending on your point of view ? Will your love be magnanimous , like the Titanic, seemingly built to endure whatever conditions may arise, but then suddenly disappear from our sight like a falling star? We will not be able to answer that until we reach the end, but we surely can work on it! Apart from love, there has to be TRUTH AND SINCERITY! We cannot return to our homes daily , full of doubts and insecurities .. we should not enter our homes. ..fully dressed with the cloak of questions on our marriages! After a while, these very doubts fester, and infect whatever good feelings we have…thus breaking apart like the Titanic , and we drown in our own dark emotions! Truth and sincerity would have prevented all this! So before you embrace that rollercoaster ride of marriage, think twice! Am I really prepared to live with this person ..be true..be honest..be sincere and to love through thick and thin until the day I die?

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